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You Don't Have a Love Problem. You Have an Access Problem
The image and the thing are not the same. Confusing them costs most people years.
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Why Smart People Stay Stuck: The Case for Trusting the Unknown
Intelligence is good at understanding problems. It's terrible at accessing the part of you that sees the truth when your head has assembled every reason why something wouldn't work.
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Love Isn't Something You Find. It's Something You Learn to Hold.
We learn love based on our history. Very few of us know what true love is. And it is okay.
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Your Triggers Are Not the Problem — They're the Lesson
Most people don't want to examine their lives. They want relief from them. The learning mindset doesn't offer relief. It offers something more useful: the ability to move.
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What We Owe Each Other: the Case for Emotional Liberation as a Shared Project
The men I am thinking of are not broken. They are intelligent, caring, careful humans who have drawn a single, devastating conclusion from a lifetime of evidence: that the full expression of who they are is not safe in the world.