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We Can Plan for Mars but Not for Peace? The Double Standard We Live By
On awareness, responsibility, and the part we keep avoiding
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The Snapshot Problem: Why People Build a Fixed Image of You and Never Update It
They don't see you. They see themselves, reflected back. They lash at their own pain using your name.
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When Men Ask if I Cook and What It Reveals About them
What early priorities reveal about the kind of partnership we’re actually seeking
This Holiday Season, I Felt Extremely Lonely for the First Time
And Why I Believe This Is a Good Thing
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Why Relationships Fail: What No One Wants to Admit
There is way more that we can do instead of going through people in the hope of finding the one or chasing the ones who don’t…
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Dating Isn't Shopping: Why the Search Model Keeps Failing You
Here's a question worth sitting with: are you looking for a relationship, or are you shopping for one?
What We Owe Each Other: the Case for Emotional Liberation as a Shared Project
The men I am thinking of are not broken. They are intelligent, caring, careful humans who have drawn a single, devastating conclusion from a lifetime of evidence: that the full expression of who they are is not safe in the world.